Asians are cuter than other people

Despite continual efforts it is difficult to deny scientific fact. Although that difficulty has been lessened over the years a couple of facts remain.

Pancakes are the bomb

and Asians are cute.

One can debate one of the aforementioned facts, but scientific evidence proves that many persons from the continent of Asia posses a gene specifically meant to make them cute.

Cuteness is defined as “inspiring great affection; delightful; charming”. Unlike other modes of attraction measuring cuteness is scientifically quantifiable! One can boast an opinion on which traits they find sexy or beautiful but science has a particular criteria for cuteness. Having smaller limbs, hairless body, “infantile” proportions, rounder faces, larger heads etc. are dubbed traits associated with cuteness and being cute holds many benefits.

Among the benefits are that cutness makes others want to offer you protection. This is the widely accepted reason the young and defenseless of many species garner this trait. One is more likely to defend a tiny baby than a 35 year old man.

Another benefit is that members of the opposite sex find you more attractive and healthy and want to mate with you.

This ultimately results in populations largely comprised of persons garnering the gene. This is also a widely believed reason of why cuteness is so vastly present in the Asian genetic pool in the modern day.

When you combine those benefits the outcome will be the adorable young of any species that you just want to cuddle and protect.

Another outcome is a person of Asian ancestry.

The reason why Asian persons tend to retain elements related to cuteness past infancy is due to the adaptation of a genetic trait by the name of neoteny. Neoteny is defined as “the retention of juvenile features in the adult anima”. As Image 1 visually depicts, physical traits such as smallness, hairlessness, disproportioned limbs etc. evidenced primarily in infants tend to decrease as one ages. However, the neotenous trait prevents that, and thus chubby cheeked tiny adults are developed.

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The neotenous trait is widely found amongst Asians. There are many hypothetical reasons given to explain this, the most accepted being that Asians millenniums ago naturally developed the trait as a means of protection, and through natural selection as well as the preference to produce offspring with neotonous partners the gene became abundant across the continent presently!

The cuteness that many Asians garner naturally is emphasized through dress and actions. In many Asian countries, especially Japan, cuteness is a significant aspect of daily fashion.

Also, being cute does not only affect Asian women, it effects Asian men as well!!

Also, don’t get your panties in a bunch if you think I’m saying other races can’t be cute. This is not at all what I’m saying, there are a lot of non-Asians that are cute; however this is not about them. This about the cute a$$ Asians.

So do you have any examples of neotenous Asians?

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Be intimate during the summer

Turn off the lights, and light a candle…

Maybe don’t light a candle…

Summer is not as romantic as one would think. It’s hot, sticky, and full of mosquitos.

To top it all of kids are out of school and bored, so to entertain themselves they come eat up all your food and bother you. Even when they’re not yours.

Many of us actually dislike summer and romanticize it only in the winter when we’re freezing our butts off.

It’s hard to be intimate when you are more concerned with not melting or getting malaria than you are with “sexy time”, but millions of people around the world do it and according to Askmen.com there are a variety of benefits to receive by doing it.

Askmen.com reports that ” The act of cuddling releases a hormone called oxytocin, sometimes called the ‘cuddling hormone.’ Oxytocin is responsible for provoking what scientists refer to as ‘pair bonding’, which means it makes the cuddling couple feel closer and more intimate”.

So, basically if you cuddle with your man he won’t cheat on you.

…Not really 100% sure about that, I mean a leaopard doesn’t change it’s spots. A cheater is going to cheat on you no matter what you do or how you look.

But back to the topic. Intimacy doesn’t have to cease to exist just because it is hot outside. Some tried and true methods to intimacy in the summer are as follows:

Taking room temperature showers together

A tried and true “sexy time” location, few can dispute the showers’ dual ability to get you clean and satisfied at the same time.

But did you know that if you just turn down the water heat (and close your eyes and use your imagination) you have a romantic waterfall cascading onto you and your lover?

Getting a “pool full of liquor and dive in”

When I was in undergrad my friends did this and I couldn’t go because I was busy.

They made sure to tell me about it in detail and make me regret not going. They also made sure to throw in that my crush went! To think that I missed the opportunity to pretend I was drunk and confess my love to him and have him positively respond and then we’d be happily ever after and I would have like six kids by now took me out!

(If he’s reading this mwen renmen ou, I’m waiting for you bae!)

I’lll always be waiting

But despite the fact that I have yet to experience it in person, I still think that it is a great way to beat the heat while also cuddling up to a special someone.

Good old fashioned water balloon fight

Disclaimer: You may not want to partake in this option if you wear wigs and glue them down with Got2bglue. One wrong move and your wig can go flying. Yes, your man know that’s not your hair. But let him pretend for a few minutes before you put your scarf back on.

This a fun way to be intimately completive while staying cool and burning some calories! Motivate one another by making a fun prize like the loser has to be the winners slave for 12 hours.

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Does race matter in camming? part 1

As I frequently note, I grew up in a neighborhood comprised of mostly Black Americans. As a result of this lack of diversity a comfortableness with expressing stereotypes based on race was common. It was not unusual to hear “Black people always loud” or “you know white people can’t dance” quite frequently. Although I have been exposed to vast diversity since my childhood and repeatedly have evidenced these stereotypes to be false I am led to believe that these stereotypes are still held by the majority of society due to de facto segregation and the frequency of micro-aggressions commonly made against minorities. Little defense mechanisms made by others upon my approach are so common that I do not even notice them! It is only when I am with someone of a race unfamiliar with them are they pointed out to me. Racism is just as prominent today as it was in the era of Jim Crow.

In 2019 a lot of Americans would like to believe that we live in a post-racial society; unfortunately this is not true. Data shows that as a society we are more racist than ever (Pew Poll). This is confirmed by The Huffington Post which states that “racism still manifests itself frequently in everyday life”. Evidence of racial disparities in schools, jobs, wealth, etc. are expounded upon to validate this claim in the Huffington post article. In this article a brief expose’ on racial disparities in the webcam world will be examined.


It has been driven into our heads for decades that a beautiful woman is a dainty white woman with a slender frame and tiny features.


This dream girl had to have pale soft skin and sexy wavy hair. Her thinness evidenced her fragility and need to be protected by a big strong man. Due to her weakness she was prone to frequent fainting spells. Thankfully the help was always there to catch her sexy self.

The help was usually a heavy set black woman and was not seen as sexy. This perception of dark-skinned black American women as the overweight sidekick to the cute and sexy white or light-skinned girl is one which has been blasted by the media for decades.


This unconscious association of black women as less attractive is very evident in the world of camming. To validate this I perused the homepages of a few popular camming sites. In my passive research I counted a total of only four phenotypically black girls on the homepages of six different camming sites. This was only 4 women out of about 500 girls!

Unfortunately, this racial difference was also evidenced to affect tips procured. Using a small sample size of only twenty models financial rewards were 70 percent higher for models that did not appear phenotypically black.

I evidenced an obvious layer of racism within the cammming community quite a while ago. The absence of diversity on the homepage was evident to me immediately. Yet, when I pointed it out to people of other races they reported that they had not noticed this. I have also been led to wonder whether I notice racism and colorism more than those who do not experience it because I am frequently affected by it. I say this as a response to the gaggle of non-black people who will think “racism? RACISM? it’s all in her head no ones racist.”

Let me end part one of my series on race now. Don’t fret! I will continue to explore racism in the sex industry monthly.

Tune in on the first Friday of every month were we will discuss race-related topics to camming! Also, what are your thoughts on this topic?

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Why Black girls have big butts

Disclaimer: Some people love to claim that “we are all the same”. This ideal is unfortunately not true. There are various physiological adaptations that groups of people have developed as a result of external circumstances pertaining to them over thousands of years. An example of this phenomenon can be witnessed in the differences between African elephants and Asian elephants. They are both elephants, however differences in everything from skin density to diet can be evidenced.

In recent years the curvy physique has become popular in the mainstream. The main stream media features girls with wide hips as the ideal and big butts as desirable.

One would forget that it wasn’t too long ago that the ideal body was devoid of the curves celebrated in the modern day.

The sudden popularity of Brazilian Butt Lifts and the uplifting of women with obvious fake butts leaves women with naturally large rears perplexed. They had to navigate a society in which their big thighs, wide hips, and big butts were often ridiculed by the mainstream. In addition to that they also had to deal with the emotional confusion of being considered highly desirable and attractive to those in their own areas with like-minded individuals and mediocre to others in the mainstream.

These physical attributes also were attributed to being black; and prior to 2005 being black was the worst thing you could be.

While in the modern day claims that black women often have bigger butts naturally than their lighter skinned counterparts are considered outrageous by the sudden crop of thin and white girls with large fake butts or athletic and toned ones; a combination of history and fact has shown this belief that genetically other races are equally exposed to big buts as people of African descent to be untrue.

In addition to numerous caricatures of black women portraying exaggeratedly big behinds is history of phrases and sexual exploitation of big black butts. There also is often drawn a correlation drawn between big booties and black girls.

Big lips and big butts are ugly! Only on black girls though #culturalappropriation

Holding the assumption that black girls have larger and more pronounced butts than other races leads to the question of why? Why do black women have big butts? In the following paragraphs this question will be answered.

Steatopygia

Meriam-Websters dictionary defines steatopygia as ” a genetic characteristic leading to increased accumulation of adipose tissue in the buttock region, is found in women of sub-Saharan African origin, most notably (but not solely) among the Khoisan of southern Africa and Pygmies of central Africa. .” Steatopygia is an adaptive trait theorized to have developed initially among women in hotter cllimates as it increases surface area on the body and thus increases area for the body to disperse heat.

As Black Americans are descendants of the Sub-Saharan Africans who initially garnered the trait, Black Americans are still reported to have this gene.

So big butts are not just wallets, they are also air conditioners!

Diet

According to the U.S Census Bureau “Of all the people who reported as Black in Census 2000, 54 percent lived in the South”. The majority of Black Americans live in the southern United States. As a result many partake in “southern” foods laden with butter and bacon grease. I’m talking Beans, Greens, Potatoes, Tomatoes, Lamb, Rams, Hogs, Maws.

This diet high in fat results in bigger EVERYTHING.

Perception

There are NUMEROUS examples of black girls having big butts in the media. From Nicki Minaj to Beyoncé black celebrities are admired for their derriere’s as much as they are for their art .

Whether positive or negative the words big butt usually bring to mind an image of a black girl.

The words fake big butt bring to mind this.

So black women are genetically inclined to have a nice rear end. But you don’t have to be black to have a nice butt. You can always workout!

Sorry….you can also buy one!

What do you think about butts? Can anyone have a big butt?

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Don’t donate to charity!

A popular phenomenon that has been evidenced for years now is that of sharing a percentage of your income with charitable organizations. Whether it’s the insistence of paying 10 % of your income every Sunday to God (God is synonymous to pastor, they have to pay their mortgage some way!) or giving 10 cents a day to a starving child in Africa; giving financially is encouraged.

It has been the norm, up until recent years, to donate to non-profit organizations. A study done by researchers from Texas A&M using data gathered from the Panel Study of Income Dynamics from the University of Michigan—which collects information on personal income, wealth, education, and spending—to determine the likelihood that someone gave money to charity and how much he or she gave found this decline to be true. The survey data included a sample of 13,000 people asked about a range of topics on an annual basis from 2001 to 2013. This allowed researchers to compare giving patterns before, during, and immediately after the Great Recession while controlling for factors such as income, wealth, state of residence, the local housing market, race, gender, and family size.

About 61 percent of households reported giving to charity in 2000, with an average gift of about $2,600. As a proportion of income, that means that the average person gave away 3.7 percent of his or her earnings. And each year after 2000, charitable giving increased by one or two percentage points until 2008, when the recession started and contributions began drying up.

The study failed to account for the lowering value of the American dollar and the affect of such on disposable income of those responsible for charitable giving. Ten years ago you could get a cheeseburger, fries, a drink, and buy the guy hanging outside the corner stores mixtape for $5.00.

In 2019 You can’t even get a decent sized burger for $5.00.

This as well as more knowledge on the low percentage of your donation actually used on the cause has also led to a decrease in donations. According to Today.com about a quarter of your donation to a charity goes to administrative and marketing costs. That’s like loaning someone 100 bucks and they give you back 75.

An even higher percentage is withheld in donations to some organizations. A popular non-profit organization is reported by charitynavigator.com to only spend 51% of your donation on aspects related to it’s cause!

If I give $50.00 to a charity that 50 better go to that cause, not support some rich guys video game obsession.

So in light of those facts I advocate for camgirls who want to donate to give back using other methods.

For example, using excess tips to make it rain on other models that indicate they’re pregnant or are not receiving what they deserve that night. I advocate for community wealth building so keeping money in your community is a benefit to you ultimately as well!

Another option is to buy a bunch of school uniform shirts at Goodwill and donate them to an inner city school. Goodwill is literally giving away uniforms in the summer. I know for a fact we have to wear uniforms at public schools in New Orleans and every year there were always kids in my class whose parents could not afford to buy them uniforms.

Lastly if you MUST donate consider donating to a smaller organization. An organization that won’t use your donation to pay for its Super Bowl commercial or Advertisement in Teen Vogue magazine.

Do you donate to charity? Leave your answer below!

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Ways to leave the camgirl in the bed

I have to come clean about something.

I …I am

an actress!

Yes I have acted in my fairshare of high school and middle school plays.

I’m kinda a big deal

As an actress I get into my character roles by practicing method acting. Oxford Dictionary defines method acting as “a technique of acting in which an actor aspires to complete emotional identification with a part, based on the system evolved by Stanislavsky and brought into prominence in the US in the 1930s”.

Well known examples of method acting include Christian Bale in his role in Machinist. Bale portrayed a sleep-deprived drill-press operator who was thin and haggard due to his lifestyle. In order to prepare for his role Bale went through a self-imposed period of isolation as well as drastic weightloss.

Another example of method acting is that of Heath Ledger in The Dark Night.

In preparation for the role of the Joker Ledger fully immersed himself into a dark and troubling past in order to adequately portray the troubled villain. This led Ledger to perform fantastically in the role but unfortunately also led to his death. Ledger’s death is widely attributed to Ledger’s inability to excorcise his embodiment of his role.

The horrible case of Heath Ledger is unfortunately one which is experienced by many others. The act of having a difficult time separating yourself from a character is one also explained by actor Michael B. Jordan in THIS article.

The ability to let go of a character is difficult for those responsible for spending long time periods immersed in a role. However, they can be comforted by the knowledge of when that role will end.

That luxury is often not afforded to camgirls who unfortunately do not know exactly when the camming period will end.

Excorcising the sex-obsessed character that one embodied whilst camming is also made difficult mentally as the character follows you around no matter what you do. For example, you could be having Sunday dinner with the family at Big Mamas house and you randomly get a kik message demanding a picture of your “private”.

Luckily I have amassed a few methods to utilize as a camgirl to essentially excorcise the role.

Schedule a time and stick to it

Schedule an hour or two a day dedicated to camgirl activities. That includes taking pictures or videos, snapchatting, kik messaging, etc. During the time scheduled adopt your sensual alter-ego. When the time period has ended and you feel as if you are finished with your duties get up and resume your day. Do not allow yourself to dedicate time outside of that to do anything related to camming..

Set up a ritual to do everytime that you are finished camming

One needs to have a transition period between being the camgirl and the girl. Forming a ritual which will serve as a signal to your brain to return to reality is important. This symbol is akin to the chess pieces utilized by Frances in Castle Rock to signal to herself that she must return to the present universe. Some examples of rituals include watching a video on YouTube, Reading memes on Twitter, Meditation session, etc.

Never cam where you rest at

As Biggie warned us all “never sell crack where you rest at”. You probably aren’t selling crack in your bed


But in this case “selling crack” is synonymous with camming. Performing a work related activity brings the energy or work and the stressors that come with it. Your bad should be somewhere you relax, sleep, or do other things

so you do not want your brain to associate that place with work. If you do not have another bedroom just laying around waiting to be used you can always change up the space by using different bedding, adding pillows, and lighting a scented candle to distinguish your bedroom from your cam area.

These are my tips to return your spirit back to the present and relinquish it from the dungeon that you locked in whilst camming.


What are your tips?

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Are camgirls artificial fantasies?

I initially set out to determine whether or not camming was considered sex work thus enabling camgirls the ability to adopt the title of “sex worker”. In my quest I stumbled upon a post titled
“The Emotional Side of Camming”. The article was written for Vice magazine and was accurate as it drew examples and quotes from camgirls at the time. It was definitely an interesting article about “the physical and psychological strain on women in an industry where success is dependent upon consistency and access is often conveniently forgotten”. It explored that topic well and in its support of its thesis mentioned the similarity between camgirls and Samantha in the film Her.

Her is an Academy Award winning film that “follows Theodore Twombly (Joaquin Phoenix), a man who develops a relationship with Samantha (Scarlett Johansson), an artificially intelligent virtual assistant personified through a female voice”

The article only used the comparison as a simple example and briefly touched on it but I found it to be fascinating and wanted it to be expounded upon more. Thus, this article was born.

So armed with a bag of popcorn I set out to rewatch the film Her. This time watching I made sure to watch the film from a perspective of a camgirl focused more on Samantha than Theodore. With the aforementioned lens I noticed a few things.

My first observation was in how Theo (in my opinion) talked sh** about his wife and hyped up this Operating System chick who hasn’t had to deal with his bs and doesn’t have to worry about working 40 hours a week while caring for a manchild while still being expected to have sex every night.

I was about to ride up on Theo and put these paws on him for my girl Karen but then I remembered that I’m black and the law isn’t exactly in my favor.

My second observation was how Theo idolized Samantha and projected a personality upon her that matched him perfectly and when Samantha expressed ideals that did not match these Theo lost interest. Theo’s loss of interest was portrayed visually in the scene in which he basically shunned the sexual advances of the surrogate sex partner.

This scene relates to camgirls as it embodies the initial obsession with them prior to getting to know them as entities that are multi-layered and bigger than 1 dimensional fantasies. It’s easy to project perfection on someone whos just a voice and in the case of a camgirl an image. However, when that girl is staring you right in your face perfection becomes slightly more difficult to project.

A lot of frequent viewers like camgirls and imagine camgirls just lounge around like this:

When in actuality camgirls lounge around like this:

Because camgirls portray a fantasy; embodying characteristics that may not exactly embody her true self yet fulfill the needs of the Theo (or viewer) in the situation it is fine for them to mold their personality to fit the needs of whomever they are matched with that day.

Theo needed someone to talk to and to give him confidence so that he could get over his impending divorce just as Theo’s friend Amy need a friend to make her laugh following her separation.

No matter the situation the Operating System was prepared to make it all better. This final statement can be directly applied to camgirls. Like Samantha, a camgirl can be whatever you need at the time.

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Camming while on your period

In my last camgirl post I stated that in the next camgirl post I would explore the signs of horniness within males; but as Wendy Williams notoriously says “a woman is allowed to change her mind” and after doing hours of pointless research, I have. The signs of horniness in males did not offer a very vast or interesting list. Basically, if a guy smiles at you, he’s horny…just kidding!

kinda….

The topic of this post will be focused on periods! Most women have them, and they are here to stay. Just like another thing that is also here to stay and equally as troublesome: BILLS!

So even when Aunt Flow is visiting and you feel like trading in your webcam for a gallon of cookie dough ice cream and Netflix you cannot. You cannot because the rent is due every month and its not going to pay itself.

So you may feel like a cow but in order to put food on the table you must be a sexy cow.

Here’s how.

Periods.

Medical News Today describes a period as follows “A woman has two ovaries, each of which contains a number of eggs. Every month during the reproductive years an egg will be released. Also, every month, the womb prepares a lining in case the egg should become fertilized. If the egg does not become fertilized, the lining is not needed and, together with the egg, it will be shed. We see this shedding as blood. This is what we call a period”.

Medical News Today as well as numerous other sources maintain that the frequency and duration of periods vary based on a variety of other factors but one is guaranteed to experience at least one. This statement makes periods seem like a serial killer of sorts.

Medical News Today lists the following symptoms as being symptoms associated with periods:

  • abdominal bloating
  • acne
  • headache, including migraine
  • irritability
  • pains, especially backache
  • low mood
  • feeling generally emotional or troubled
  • insomnia
  • lack of concentration
  • breast tenderness or swelling
  • slight weight gain
  • binge eating

I experience pretty much all of them (ESPECIALLY irritability and low mood, I will ban you for calling me cute and then cry when five minutes go by and no one tips. I am the poster child for emotionality during that time of the month.)

The best way I have found to deal with your period while camming is to be honest about it. The persons viewing cams are not in the sixth grade (hopefully) and probably wont be totally disgusted when you divulge that you are unable to do something due to being on your period. However, chances are they will be disgusted if you move the tampon to the side and proceed.

I deal with bloating by donning a cute one piece lingerie. I also make sure that a bunch of snacks are nearby to satiate the need for junk food accompanying periods. In regards to both pain and emotional volatility I recommend offering a private show with the ability for members to purchase a ticket. Give them like two hours or so to buy a ticket and then just do stuff for those who actually pay, not the freeloaders. Freeloaders just really grind my gears when I’m on my period and if I expend 1 ounce of energy and they don’t tip

So I eliminate the outward expression of irritability by only offering my time and energy to paying customers.

I would LOVE to hear your tips for keeping it sexy when Aunt Flow comes around! Please leave them in the comment section below.

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5 Signs of Horniness in women

People no longer have sex purely for procreation. According to a survey of adults aged 20 to 59 done by the National Center for Health Statistics the majority of responders report that their objective in having sex is to have fun, not to make a baby. It is notable that the preference for having sexual relationships in order to make a child significantly increases and forms the majority for women of child-bearing age.

This change in perception of sex from a necessary evil to a good time creates an importance in ensuring the arousal of your partner. You would want every party involved to be having fun, right? Below are five signs that your female partner is aroused. Net Friday arousal signs in males will be examined. This week is for the ladies.

You smell different

The smell of your skin will change when aroused. The smell will not change for the better or change for the worse, it will just change. This happens due to the secretion of pheromones in the body, a chemical substance that sends olfactory cues in order to provoke certain behaviors related to sexual desire and attraction.

You get hot. literally

When a woman is aroused, she’ll experience a significant increase in body temperature. This is due to the increased heartrate and increased blood flow to your skin. So while you’re “turn(ing) the lights down low” you should do the same with the air conditioning before you get freaky.

Your language changes

Before this wonderful era that permits women to express sexual desires verbally there were the dark ages where sexual expression wasn’t allowed. Although I am not from that era, I was raised by someone who was and adhere HEAVILY to this point.

A lot of females cannot say “I want to bang you” so instead will use euphemisms for what they want to do. For example they will say “oh its hot in here! I need to have a long hard sip of coke”.

You get touchy

When aroused, you feel the need to touch the object of your lust.

No, it doesn’t mean ladies out here grabbing d#@!s at Sunday dinners in front of grandma. This isn’t Soul Food.

Subtle touches of your hand, your knee, or your cheek are telltale signs of horniness. You will go for the parts of your body that are not often touched by others – like your inner thigh or lower part of your back.

You arch your back

Arching the back is not just something skinny Instagram models consciously do to fool less than smart men into thinking they have a curvy figure, its something we do subconsciously when our body is ready to “mate”.

Do any of these things happen to you when you’re aroused?

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8 things you need to know about orgasms

If winning the lottery and world peace had a love child the child would be the female orgasm.

Equal parts pleasure and biological necessity, a good orgasm is all you need in life.  Well, that and water; and food; and shelter etc.

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Ok maybe its not all that you need, but it sure is nice!  Here are 8 facts about the female orgasm that may help you “reach the climax that your man can’t make” (One More Chance by Notorious B.I.G).

Some women have orgasms while they exercise (i.e., “coregasms”).

Young Woman Doing Pushups on Bench

So, you’re elongating your life, looking thinner, AND having an orgasm?!  What other super activity has that many benefits?

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In addition,  physical activity also releases endorphins in your brain.  The same stimuli released in antidepressants and sugar.  So not only will you possibly have an orgasm but you will feel happier either way.

 Most women report that a longer penis does not increase their likelihood of reaching orgasm during vaginal intercourse

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Apparently size doesn’t really matter!  You can refer the clients who would like confirmation of this to this science based evidence article on elitedaily.com.

It’s not easy for women to reach orgasm

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You are not alone if you have never experienced an orgasm! According to Rowland, Cempel, and Tempel, as reviewed in their recent study Women’s Attributions Regarding Why They Have Difficulty Reaching Orgasm,” reports of difficulty or inability to orgasm in women range from 10 to 40 percent. External factors such as stress at work or medical issues are often to blame for this problem.

Orgasm gets better with age.

sexy old woman

This fact drums up fond memories of my grandma telling me how she is having the best sex shes ever had now, in her 70’s at the time.  Looking back, that topic of conversation may have been a bit innapropriate…But apparently as her ease at achieving orgasms increased her filter in conversations decreased.

Women can experience orgasm in their sleep

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Two of my favorite things to do are to sleep and have sex!  The combination of the positive factors of both sounds fantastic!  Orgasming while asleep is a subconscious activity that cannot be controlled.  So, unfortunately, you cannot force  an orgasm to happen while sleeping.  Doctors compare this phenomena to sleep walking.

The environment and social factors affect the ability of a woman to achieve orgasm

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“Setting the mood” is a needed step in being able to achieve an orgasm.  Other factors that affect our social lives such as a fight with a friend or disagreement with a coworker can also diminish the ability to orgasm.

It’s a form of cardio

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Forget the treadmill, you don’t even have to leave the bed to improve heart health.  Orgasms increase your heart rate and are a great way to get your daily cardio in.

It relieves stress

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A way to relieve stress is to have the brain release endorphins.  Endorphins are like reminders to your brain to be happy.  Studies have shown that many illegal drugs such as heroin cause your brain to release endorphins.  An alternative is orgasming.  Orgasms are also found to release endorphins and to relieve stress.

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