As I frequently note, I grew up in a neighborhood comprised of mostly Black Americans. As a result of this lack of diversity a comfortableness with expressing stereotypes based on race was common. It was not unusual to hear “Black people always loud” or “you know white people can’t dance” quite frequently. Although I have been exposed to vast diversity since my childhood and repeatedly … Continue reading Does race matter in camming? part 1
Disclaimer: Some people love to claim that “we are all the same”. This ideal is unfortunately not true. There are various physiological adaptations that groups of people have developed as a result of external circumstances pertaining to them over thousands of years. An example of this phenomenon can be witnessed in the differences between African elephants and Asian elephants. They are both elephants, however differences … Continue reading Why Black girls have big butts
I know a lot of persons will strongly disagree with the title of this post and in my defense I do not think that all Vera Bradley items are hideous, just most of them. Also, the designers must have gotten the memo that paisley prints were not exactly lusted after by their intended demographic and thus have been producing significantly less over the years. I … Continue reading Vera Bradley items are ugly
A popular phenomenon that has been evidenced for years now is that of sharing a percentage of your income with charitable organizations. Whether it’s the insistence of paying 10 % of your income every Sunday to God (God is synonymous to pastor, they have to pay their mortgage some way!) or giving 10 cents a day to a starving child in Africa; giving financially is … Continue reading Don’t donate to charity!
I pride myself on not talking about or advocating for anything that I have not personally done or experienced. If I advocate for purchasing high quality and lower priced articles of clothing from thrift stores in lieu of maxxing out your credit cards buying new name brand clothing pieces at stores, its because I’ve been there. Keeping in line with that, I cannot advocate for … Continue reading Get more out of your liquor!
I have to come clean about something. I …I am an actress! Yes I have acted in my fairshare of high school and middle school plays. As an actress I get into my character roles by practicing method acting. Oxford Dictionary defines method acting as “a technique of acting in which an actor aspires to complete emotional identification with a part, based on the system … Continue reading Ways to leave the camgirl in the bed
I wear a lot of hats. From my chef hat when I’m chef boyarbee to a visor when I’m getting buff at the gym, my head is never empty. Well, except for when I’m chilling at home, which is 90% of the time. I am what you would call a “homebody”. I’m the friend that you invite out but know she’s not going to come. … Continue reading Thrift Find: “Damn girl how you fit all of that in those jeans!”
I initially set out to determine whether or not camming was considered sex work thus enabling camgirls the ability to adopt the title of “sex worker”. In my quest I stumbled upon a post titled “The Emotional Side of Camming”. The article was written for Vice magazine and was accurate as it drew examples and quotes from camgirls at the time. It was definitely an … Continue reading Are camgirls artificial fantasies?
In honor of the day that I was born I decided that I should give instead of receiving. My logic was that I have been getting stuff for more than two decades now, why not switch it up and give something? But by “give” I don’t mean a kidney, arm, leg or another body part. It’s only a matter of time before juvenile diabetes comes … Continue reading 15 Upcycle ideas
One of the thrift finds that I covet the most is the item below. A box set of Twilight Zone dvds. I found them a few years ago at a thrift store in Ybor City, a neighborhood located in Tampa, Florida. I was in Tampa because I went to undergraduate at the University of South Florida aka the best school everrrrr (Go Bulls!) I went … Continue reading Thrift find! Twilight Zone